ARRRGH! We go on holiday and people listen to me, we have conversations and it is gentle and easy. We come home, my older brother is here he talks all the time, I can't get a word in. No one thinks I know anything. He talks in this oh so knowledgable way whilst gesticulating with his wine glass. He bullshits all the time. He is friends with MY friends. He talks SO loudly.
When I come home in the holidays they will say how nice it was without me, or if they don't say that they will say things like they "aren't used" to having me home when they forget to ask me things, forget to talk to me.